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12:02 am
July 6, 2011


Rickster

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I have a question for all you dads out there. This is my first time on a chat like this. My wife is 9 months pregnant with a boy she is due anytime. It is my first child. So alot of things are going on. First off I have to admit that I havent been the most supprtave husband in the world. The pregnency wasnt planned it was a supprise. We got into an argument yesturday. She said I wasnt helping her with anything. I do help her but not as much as I should be. I have told her before that I would do better. That works for a while and I do great, then I slip right back in a slump where I dont help as much as I should. Its come to the point to where I want to help but now she tell me that she is "done." She doesnt want to do anything else until the baby gets here and there is still alot to do. Sometimes I just want to tell her to GET OUT!, but I couldnt live with myself if I did. Right now she is in bed not talking to me and I am talking you. My question is. What do I do? I I try talking to her about it she just says Im done and I dont want to talk then starts to cry when we do talk. I feel like im at the end of my rope. Please Help.

1:21 pm
July 6, 2011


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Hi Rickster. Welcome to the site and welcome to the hell of pregnancy! Its a tough job being the expectant father and being the focus of all your pregnant wife's anger but what is going on is very common. Your wife is a lethal bag of crazy hormones and you are no doubt nervous about the whole new life that lays ahead. Don't worry, fatherhood is amazing. I wont lie to you it can be hard at times but it is well worth it. Its a cliche but it WILL change your life, for the better. In the meantime don't try and get involved with arguments with your wife – you will never win. Bite your tongue. Show her that you love her by knuckling down and doing what needs to be done and show her some tenderness. Kiss her kiss her bump and maybe massage her feet.
Good luck!

1:35 am
July 8, 2011


Rickster

San Antonio

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Thanks for your help

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